How to Choose an Obstetrician You Can Trust
Choosing the right obstetrician (OB) is one of the most important decisions you'll make during your pregnancy. Your OB will guide you through prenatal care, delivery, and postpartum recovery, making it essential to find someone who aligns with your needs and preferences. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t worry! This guide will walk you through seven steps to help you find the perfect fit for your journey into parenthood.
Step 1: Consider Your Health Needs and Preferences
Start by reflecting on your health history and any specific concerns:- Do you have a high-risk pregnancy or a medical condition requiring specialized care?
- Are you looking for someone with a holistic approach or one who practices in a hospital setting?
- Do you prefer a male or female OB?
Step 2: Get Recommendations
Ask for recommendations from trusted sources:- Friends and Family: Talk to people you trust who have had positive experiences with their obstetricians.
- Healthcare Providers: Your primary care doctor or gynecologist can offer referrals to reputable OBs.
- Online Reviews: Check online reviews and testimonials on sites like Healthgrades or Zocdoc to get a sense of an OB’s reputation.
Step 3: Check Their Credentials
Make sure your potential OB is board-certified in obstetrics and gynecology. This certification ensures they’ve undergone rigorous training and meet the highest standards of care. You can verify their credentials on the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology website.Step 4: Evaluate Their Experience
Experience matters, especially if you have a high-risk pregnancy or specific concerns. Questions to ask include:- How many years have they been practicing?
- Do they specialize in high-risk pregnancies or certain delivery methods (e.g., vaginal birth after cesarean, or VBAC)?
- How often do they handle complications?
Step 5: Assess Their Communication Style
Your OB should make you feel comfortable and valued. During your first visit, pay attention to how they communicate:- Do they listen to your questions and answer them thoroughly?
- Are they empathetic and reassuring?
- Do they explain things in a way that’s easy to understand?
Step 6: Consider Location and Accessibility
Convenience is key, especially as your pregnancy progresses and appointments become more frequent. Ask yourself:- Is their office close to your home or workplace?
- What are their office hours?
- Is the hospital where they deliver babies within a reasonable distance?
Step 7: Understand Their Approach to Birth Plans
Every OB has their own philosophy on childbirth, so make sure it aligns with your preferences. Discuss topics like:- Pain management options (e.g., epidurals, natural birth techniques)
- Views on C-sections versus vaginal delivery
- Support for birth plans and flexibility if things change
Questions to Ask During Your First Visit
When you meet a potential OB, don’t hesitate to ask questions. Here are a few ideas:- What is your approach to prenatal care and labor?
- How do you handle emergencies or complications?
- Who covers for you if you’re unavailable during delivery?
- How do you involve partners or family members in the process?
- What’s your hospital affiliation, and what are the facilities like?
Choosing an obstetrician is a deeply personal decision. Beyond credentials and experience, trust your instincts. Do you feel comfortable, heard, and confident in their care? The right OB will not only guide you through your pregnancy but also make you feel supported every step of the way.
Remember, this is your journey, and having the right partner in care can make all the difference.

Content Reviewed by Dr V.
Learn MoreDr. Vaheh Shirvanian, a family medicine physician and father. With over 17 years of experience, he specializes in inpatient acute hospital care, outpatient family medicine, urgent care, emergency medicine, and hospice care. Dr. V is passionate about guiding new parents through the challenges and joys of parenthood, offering compassionate and expert support at every step.