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Understanding Stillbirth: What Parents Need to Know and How to Cope

10 Mar 2025
Understanding Stillbirth What Parents Need to Know and How to Cope
Stillbirth is a heartbreaking and often misunderstood experience. For parents facing this unimaginable loss, understanding what stillbirth is, its causes, and ways to cope can provide some clarity and healing. This guide offers compassionate and supportive information to help you navigate this difficult journey.

What Is Stillbirth?

Stillbirth is the loss of a baby after the 20th week of pregnancy but before or during birth. It differs from miscarriage, which occurs before the 20th week. Stillbirth is more common than many people realize, affecting about 1 in 160 pregnancies.

Types of Stillbirth

  1. Early Stillbirth: Occurs between 20 to 27 weeks of pregnancy
  2. Late Stillbirth: Occurs between 28 to 36 weeks
  3. Term Stillbirth: Occurs at 37 weeks or later

What Causes Stillbirth?

In some cases, the cause of stillbirth is never determined. However, several factors can contribute, including:
  • Placental Issues: Problems with the placenta, such as placental abruption or insufficient blood flow
  • Infections: Infections in the mother or baby during pregnancy
  • Chromosomal Abnormalities: Genetic conditions affecting the baby’s development
  • Pregnancy Complications: Pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes, or issues with the umbilical cord
  • Maternal Health Conditions: High blood pressure, obesity, or autoimmune diseases
  • Lifestyle Factors: Smoking, drug use, or poor prenatal care

Reducing the Risk of Stillbirth

While not all cases are preventable, there are steps parents can take to reduce the risk:
  • Attend Regular Prenatal Checkups: Early detection of potential issues is crucial.
  • Monitor Baby’s Movements: Pay attention to your baby's kicks and report any changes to your healthcare provider.
  • Maintain a Healthy Lifestyle: Eat a balanced diet, avoid harmful substances, and manage chronic health conditions.
  • Sleep on Your Side: Research suggests that sleeping on your side during the third trimester may reduce the risk of stillbirth.
  • Follow Medical Advice: If your doctor recommends early delivery for health reasons, take it seriously.

Coping with Stillbirth

The grief of losing a baby is profound and unique. Here are some ways to help navigate the healing process:

1. Acknowledge Your Grief

Allow yourself to feel and express your emotions, whether it's sadness, anger, or guilt. There is no "right" way to grieve.

2. Seek Support

Talk to loved ones or connect with support groups who understand your experience. Professional counseling can also be invaluable.

3. Create a Memory Box

Collect meaningful items, such as ultrasound photos or a special blanket, to honor your baby's memory.

4. Memorialize Your Baby

Consider planting a tree, naming your baby, or participating in a remembrance event to celebrate their life.

5. Communicate with Your Partner

Grieving together and supporting each other can strengthen your bond during this challenging time.

Seeking Answers

After a stillbirth, doctors may offer tests to determine the cause. Understanding what happened can provide closure and help inform future pregnancies.

Hope for the Future

Many parents who experience stillbirth go on to have healthy pregnancies. Although the road may be filled with anxiety, advancements in medical care and increased monitoring can help ensure a safer experience.

You Are Not Alone

If you or someone you love has experienced a stillbirth, please know that your grief is valid, and healing is possible. Lean on your support system, seek professional help if needed, and remember that it's okay to find joy again when you're ready.
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Dr. Vaheh Shirvanian, a family medicine physician and father. With over 17 years of experience, he specializes in inpatient acute hospital care, outpatient family medicine, urgent care, emergency medicine, and hospice care. Dr. V is passionate about guiding new parents through the challenges and joys of parenthood, offering compassionate and expert support at every step.

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